It seems that nature has not deprived us of the ability to dream. Many different bright fantasies and tempting ideas come to mind. But for some reason, not all of them are destined to come true. How to help desires to be fulfilled?
“At one training, we were advised to record desires on paper: then the Universe will accept them for execution,” recalls 34-year-old Ksenia. – I wrote that I would go to Europe for the New Year. It seemed to me that I was sitting at home and suddenly a call was heard: there is a burning ticket at a ridiculous price or someone refused the trip and gives it to me. I honestly believed the universe for two months. Then I realized that I would be left without a trip, found a tour through the agency, but, alas, time was lost, the trip was much more expensive for me than it could. But the desire was fulfilled, I tell my friends sarcastically, the universe heard me “.
Which actually affects the implementation of desires? And
are there such techniques to achieve the performance of even seemingly pipe?
Go around the blocks and catch signals
“For the implementation of the desired personality resources are necessary: physical and emotional health, a sense of internal support, healthy self-esteem, success experience,” says psychologist, art therapist Polina Pedelgin. – but no less important is the absence or at least awareness of hidden benefits, fears and prohibitions related to the desire. Including family patterns of behavior and inherited beliefs “. Who believes that “you can’t easily remove the fish from the pond”, perhaps he will not see the treasure lying under the feet.
It’s not easy to get around the prohibitions, often they have to “negotiate” for a long time and diplomatically, understand when they arose, as they helped before and how much they need now. “You can’t talk to strangers”. This rule served our safety in childhood. And here we make: “I want to meet my chosen one”. But, according to conviction, this is “dangerous”, “not supposed”, “indecent” – each of us will remember many options for limiting beliefs. But now, having spoke on the street with a stranger, perhaps we will meet a future partner in life or an interesting acquaintance. So, maybe it’s time to thank these beliefs and send it to the scrap?
